I am not one for airing dirty laundry. That’s why I don’t name names. They know who they are and how they deal with my words is their own business.
This morning I woke up to a few pieces of hate mail, comments, and texts from people that were nothing less than rude and inflammatory. Honestly, aren’t you supposed to be happy today instead of accusing me of being WRONG to express my opinions, unChristian, and rich (umm…what?)?
Most of it came from high school friends and people I don’t see on a regular basis, but who I had still considered somewhat close. Well, you know, they are making their own decisions. I might think that they are foolish to continue hurling insults at someone who would never do that to them, but whatev. They are adults and they can make up their minds about how they will behave.
I am going to leave you with what I posted on my Myspace blog this morning, right after I was bombarded with these lovely messages that were sent overnight, and right before I called my mom and cried, because people who I had considered some of my closest friends were writing me off because I am a conservative.

Over the past few days, and overnight, I have had people I thought were friends attack me for how I voted, what I believe, and APPARENTLY for being rich.
Last time I checked, it was a free country and I have the right to vote and talk about who I am voting for, whenever and however I please.
IF YOU KNEW ANYTHING about me (your friend, right?) you know that I am a Christian, that there are some issues that are very important to me and that I follow what the Word of God has to say on them. Not my freaking pocket book. Oh, you think you’sa gon’ getchoo some money now, honey? Have fun!
And about the rich thing–I live on my own, BELOW the poverty line for the state of Oklahoma. Want to know what that means? LOOK IT UP. I am about to marry a man who is going to be a teacher and I am going to be a teacher. Not exactly rolling in it over here. So you need to zip it on that front.
If you are going to judge, take it elsewhere. I decided what I did based on facts, my belief in Christ, and prayer. I DIDN’T decide who I was voting for based on the color of someone’s skin, what the mainstream media was telling me, how much money someone said that I’d receive if I voted for them, and certainly not because the only reason I could find not to vote for someone is because I “hate” them or because their VP candidate has “less experience” — which still equaled more than what your candidate for PRESIDENT had.
I am done. If you are choosing to burn bridges, I will let you. You have hurt me deeply and if you are going to choose to let this be the thing that ends your friendship with me, go right ahead. If this is the way you choose to operate, you are a petty, little person, who does not know their own mind and instead follows the masses into an orgy for a man.
Stop it with the hate mail. If your problem with me is that big you need to go ahead and remove me from your friends.
I’ll be praying for you, because I love you, you are my friends, and I don’t really understand why you are insisting on treating me in this manner. But I want you to understand that I am not going to beg or fight for your friendship. There are a couple of you who have already chosen to walk away. GO. I don’t need this.


7 Responses for "Notice"
It’s sad how many people I see being attacked for voting based on morals. Isn’t that the RIGHT thing to do? The only thing I can hope is that it’s just because tensions are still high. That’ll fade with time and they’ll realize he’s just another politician. He can’t paint rainbows in the sky, give them high paying jobs, and stop their spouse from fighting with them as they seem to believe he can do.
I’m sad to hear that some people (on all sides) are using this election to hurt others, and I’m VERY sorry that someone did this to you. *hugs*
While we may have cast different ballots yesterday, I have admired how eloquently you have shared you opinions on (gasp) YOUR personal blog over the past several months. I’m afraid you are stuck with me as a reader for as long as you feel like blogging and I am so sorry to hear that anyone has given you ANY reason to cry during what should be some of the happiest and most exciting days of your life. Nothing but love for you from this house!
I am absolutely appalled and disgusted by the things you’ve had to deal with these past few days. I cannot imagine how upsetting it is for you. Just keep your head up high, girl- you are strong and truly know where your convictions lie. Which honestly? Is probably more than you can say for any of those people who have attacked you.
i’m sorry that people are so human sometimes. i too have admired the way you have so passionately fought for your beliefs through your blog. and it IS yours. to do with as you wish. it’s not like you’re posting nudie pics.
i think you are a beautiful and strong woman, and that anyone who doesn’t see that is crazy.
Oh honey, I am so sorry that people you thought were friends have treated you this way over politics. I mean, it is POLITICS! It’s not like you talked about their kids!!!
Just realize that they are the losers in this game. They have shown who they are on the inside and it’s not pretty. I will be praying for you.
Elizabeth –
I am so sorry that you have had to deal with such hurtful backlash – just for being conservative! I, too, am a conservative and I only vote pro-life. There – I said it – I only vote for candidates that value life – period. You have been both bold and eloquent in expressing your opinions. Isn’t it interesting how conservatives are attacked for their opinions and no one else seems to care but any word to a liberal results in a news story?
Keep fighting the good fight!